what makes a man fall inlove with a woman

Know a woman who always seems to be in perfect sync with the guy she is dating — they laugh at each other’s jokes, are considerate of one another’s feelings, and are devotedly in love (and best friends to boot)? Well, the reason this gal’s so lucky in love is pretty simple: It’s because she treats her guy right, and he can’t get enough of her company. Now, when I say she “treats her guy right,” what do I mean? She treats him like a friend, giving him the same five-star support, understanding, and (yes) slack we automatically extend to our girlfriends. If you want to reap the same benefits in your own love life, try some of these tips, and, trust me, you’ll notice a difference.

1. Share an activity
For women, it’s second nature to invite their girlfriends along for a shopping spree, yoga class, spa day, you name it. But activity-based bonding shouldn’t be relegated to females only. Guys love jawing over a shared pursuit, and while he might not be up for a mani/pedi (nor you for a day spent watching basketball), there are plenty of other options. Becoming gym buddies is a no-brainer (and can serve as that extra kick-in-the-butt you need to go more often!), or if you two usually dine out on a Saturday night, consider delving into a cook book and taking a crack at a recipe that’s a bit of a challenge, like duck terrine with glazed shallots. Whether it turns out terrific or so odd that you end up ordering takeout, the fact that you’ve worked toward a common goal together builds team spirit. And by investing in a history of shared experiences with your partner in crime, you’ll increase the things you have in common and experience a deeper bond.
2. Cheer him on
Women take great pains to make their girlfriends feel great about themselves, showering them with ego-boosters like, “You look amazing; that is the best color on you” or “Of course, you should email that guy — he’d be lucky to have you!” And while we might think the world of the men we date and even brag about them to our friends and family members, telling him these things doesn’t always occur to us. Maybe it’s because we assume guys possess impenetrable egos — but the truth is, they can be just as insecure as your female friends and would probably appreciate a compliment now and then. So, if he just got a promotion at work, toast him at dinner and tell him exactly why he deserved it. Or try a simple off-the-cuff statement, such as: “You look so good in that shirt — it really brings out the color in your eyes.” Don’t be surprised if he suddenly seems to be around a whole lot more often, basking in your presence.

3. Let him be himself
Most women find it hard to love guys just the way they are. We want to change their hair, their clothes, their job, and sometimes even their friends to fit our ideal. With our own pals, we’re more accepting of their differences; we can actually be proud to have a technology nerd, yoga snob or fashion slave as part of our collection of confidantes. Ruthanna Hall, a sales associate in New York, has learned to relax and appreciate distinctly male behaviors (with great results) in her own relationship. “When we go out, I might feel more like a cool lounge uptown, but then all he’ll want is a round of darts at the neighborhood dive,” she explains. Rather than sulk all evening about his lack of class, she’ll focus in on the funny conversation they’re having. “Sure, most guys do things that cause girls to go ‘uggghhh!’ But that’s just the way they are,” she says. “Why not get on with it and have fun?”

4. Tell him what you think
We don’t expect our best friends to always know what we’re thinking. In fact, we actually enjoy swapping our thoughts, hopes, and fears — that’s most of the fun! But why, then, are we so disappointed when our boyfriends don’t exhibit mind-reading tendencies 24/7? We’ve all been guilty of harboring romantic notions like, “If he’s been listening to me, he’ll know exactly where to take me for dinner on Valentine’s Day” or “If he were truly paying attention right now, he’d know I’m freaking out about this virus on my computer and offer to come over and help.” But trust me, you’ll save yourself a lot of disappointment by just telling him where you want to dine out on Valentine’s Day, or by asking him to come over with his anti-virus software. After all, it’s common knowledge that two heads are better than one, so just because you’ve decided he’s The One, don’t go mum and add major guesswork to your communications.

5. Give him his space
Sometimes, girlfriends just go MIA for awhile. They get so busy at work that they don’t return your emails. Do we give them flack for it? Nothing serious. But for some reason, the rules change for guys: We rail on them for not promptly returning phone calls, take offense if they want a guy’s night out. But remember, achieving a balance between “me” time and “we” time will make the time you do spend together even better. Bridget Cunningham found her relationship got so much mellower once she stopped stressing about where her boyfriend was every hour. “I don’t hold it against him when he wants to have his own time,” she says. “You don’t cut your friends off when they do things with other people, so why shouldn’t it be the same with the person you love? Meanwhile I’m free to go running off with my girlfriend and blab about girl stuff. We meet afterwards for coffee, and we’re both feeling refreshed and fulfilled by spending time apart…and that much happier to be spending time together again.”

DEAR IOLA

As soon as i get home , I go straight to the computer and look at your away message

hoping you'll somehow confess your love for me.

Sometimes I wonder if life is really worth it, then I look at your smile and I know it is.

Sometimes every small things you say can fit into a big empty space in my heart.

Some people say you only fall in love once, but every time i hear your voice I fall in love all over again.

If I can't get you out of my head , maybe you're supposed to be  there.

Loving you is like breathing how can i stop?

I'm jealous of every guy has ever hugged you, because for one moment,

they had my whole world in their arms.

When I see you, I got a sick feeling but it's the sick feeling I love to feel.

I get the best feeling when you say hi to me or even smile because I know

for a second I crossed your mind.

Should I smile because your my friend? or cry because that's all we ever be.

Oh Iola,  one day I caught myself smiling for no reason then I realized I was thinking of you.

Meeting you was my fate, becoming your friend was a choice but falling in love

with you was beyond my control.

Just this night I was matching a star to each thing I love about you, I was doing great!

until I ran out of stars hehe.

My hearth aches completely, every hour, everyday, and only when

I'm with you does the pain go away.

I wonder if your thinking when I look at you and smiles, I dont think you realize

how easily you make me smile.

Why am i afraid to lose you when you aren't even mine.

casting the potter kids

the harry potter series are very entertaining and takes you into a world of magical adventures and occult phenomena.It would have hit the mark more had not the elements of ordinary romance intrude upon the serious matters of wizrdry and metaphysics;i found myself helplessly retreating from the ones with romantic overtures.It just does not match,social infatuation and mature occultism.

man i just love harry potter, well i am one of the big fans of harry. I love their movie that is just shooting out this year. and also i have the full collection of harry potter to 1-6 harry potter movies. can't wait to watch the next.

I thnk it's amazing how they've been able to keep almost the entire cast of characters together and how well each has matured into their respective character. Was it great casting, blind luck or a combination of both? No one really knows I guess but we, the viewing public are the lucky ones. Can't wait for July 2011!!!

New alien planet stumps scientists

If there are other lifeforms "OUT THERE", I'm sure they look up in their sky and see the Earth as a mere nighttime star, just like we look up and see, for the most part, millions upon millions of nameless, faceless, insignificant lights in the sky. Meanwhile, how much of our tax dollars are about to be poured into the study of 'this' one...?

Huge volcano blast spawns horrific scenes

MOUNT MERAPI, Indonesia – Searing gas avalanched down an Indonesian volcano with a thunderous roar, torching houses and trees and incinerating villagers as they fled Mount Merapi's worst eruption in a century. Dozens of bodies found Friday raised the death toll to 122.
The injured — with clothes, blankets and even mattresses fused to their skin by the 1,400 degree Fahrenheit (750 degree Celsius) heat — were carried away on stretchers following the first big explosion just before midnight.
Soldiers joined rescue operations in hardest-hit Bronggang, a village nine miles (15 kilometers) from the crater, pulling at least 78 bodies from homes and streets blanketed by ash up to one-foot (30-centimeters) deep.
Crumpled roofs, charred carcasses of cattle, and broken chairs — all layered in white soot — dotted the smoldering landscape. Merapi was active throughout the day Friday.

The volcano, in the heart of densely populated Java island, has erupted scores of times, killing more than 1,500 people in the last century alone. But tens of thousands of people live on its rolling slopes, drawn to soil made fertile by molten lava and volcanic debris.

two ghost caught in my pic

I got this scary pic when I and my friends having an island tour to the island called "camotes".
It was very fun and relaxing trip,we'd went to different towns in the island and great places too.
Until such time we'd drop by a remote area and nearly abandoned cave. Only few people or shall i say
expert who could get in--- in that cave , im lucky i was able to managed obstacles that we encounter going in that cave. And all our hard work were paid when we are about to see the nature beauty of that cave.


stare close at the two red circles...

                                              

real ghost or trick?

I'm not knocking people's beliefs or anything. People can believe whatever they want and there are certainly things that science doesn't understand but there have been so many frauds and scams misleading people to believe things that are not true that it clouds any truth. And I'm referring to specific events not beliefs as a whole. For instance, I'm sure there is life after death from all that I've seen and heard in my lifetime and from other experiences of people even those in the medical field. But it can't be photographed and it won't appear in some parlor trick.

I am sometimes curious why life after death experiences are not publicized more than they are. We had hospitals in our area participate in a large study of these occurrences with some very amazing stories as a result that were publicized locally but not even mentioned in the final study. The professionals are very aware of these events but they are downplayed officially (not denied) probably because it is unexplainable and falls into the real of religion.